Making The First Move?

I am "cewek kuno!". I don't feel OK if I had to make the first move. Why? Because I'm afraid to get hurt, and I'm easily hurt huhu...pathetic me! So what am I supposed to do then? Argh.... I like that guy a lot :( ...but I don't think I can do that much. Damn! This is "Cinderella Syndrome" I supposed...