My Mom :)

Tiba2 aja gue pingin bikin blog tentang nyokap gw. Udah beberapa hari ini soalnya nyokap gue punya kejadian2 lucu. Gue selalu berangkat kantor dan pulang bareng nyokap, secara kantor gue di pondok indah dan beliau di fatmawati, jadi selalu nganterin nyokap dulu deh gue. Selama adek gue ngekost, nyokap gue deh yang selalu gue ceritain...tapi tentunya ngga semua secret gue lah ya gue ceritain ke nyokap.

Nyokap gue itu selalu rewel kalau gue mau pergi keluar rumah malem2 atau pergi kalau pas kantor lagi libur, urusan bergaul! Pokoknya kalau gue ngga jelas mau pergi kemana dan sama siapa pasti ribet banget. Bayangin aja...dari gue kecil sampai gue segede ini nih, kalau gue mau pergi kemana2, nyokap gue harus tau gue pergi sama siapa. I mean benar2 kenal dengan siapakah gue akan pergi. Jadi kalau gue mau pergi dengan orang yang beliau bahkan baru denger namanya, gue ngga akan boleh pergi. Tapi kalau udah ketemu, dan tau jelas teman gue itu orangnya seperti apa, nyokap gue baru bolehin gue pergi. Teman2 sekolah dan kuliah gue tahu banget tuh soal ini. Pokoknya mereka kalau mau ajak gue pergi, harus setor muka dulu. Waktu SMP dan SMA bahkan gue ngga boleh jalan2 mall. Karma kali ya, sekarang gue malah tempat kerjanya di mall (BUKAN SPG!), dan otomatis tiap hari gue jalan2 mlulu kalau belum dijemput supir hehe.

Temen2 dekat gue yang kami sudah dekat sejak di bangku SD bahkan di bangku TK dulu, beberapa dari mereka punya sebutan masing2, panggilan akrab dan kesayangan gue dan teman2 lah kalau bisa dibilang. Seperti Wewenk yang bernama asli Dita, Geger yang bernama asli Tia, dan Sindrow yang bernama asli Sindy. Gue selalu bercerita ke nyokap gue kalau2 ada kejadian tentang mereka sejak di sekolah dulu bahkan sampai sekarang. Dan lucunya, gue selalu memakai nama2 sebutan mereka, bukan nama asli. Alhasil, yang teringat sama nyokap gue adalah nama2 sebutan mereka. Suatu hari...nyokap gue secara tidak sengaja bertemu dengan nyokapnya teman gue, nyokapnya si Geger. Lalu si tante (nyokapnya Geger) itu bertanya tentang kabar gue. Sambil menjawab pertanyaan2 si tante ini...nyokap gue masih sambil berfikir dengan keras siapa nama asli nya si Geger...dan akhirnya nyokap gue dengan perasaan agak malu tentunya bertanya "siapa namanya??". Hiahaihai...daripada kesebut Geger gak sih? Gak sopan banget nama anak si Tante bagus2 dipanggil Geger sama nyokap gue hehe...

Selain urusan mencari teman, nyokap gue juga rewel banget soal mencari teman lelaki atau pacar! Jangan heran kalau gue picky banget kalau untuk urusan mencari pacar! Karena nyokap gue sendiri selective banget untuk urusan satu ini. Pernah nyokap gue dibuat kaget bukan main pas pertama kali bertemu dengan mantan gw yang waktu itu masih jadi pacar gue gara2 dia datang ke rumah kakek gw pakai sepatu fantofel (how to write that si ya?), kemeja lengan panjang tapi celananya jeans terus rambutnya emo. Dan waktu adek gue bawa pacarnya ke rumah pertama kali (sekarang udah jadi mantan juga), lebih parah lagi....pake boots masuk rumah! Nyokap gue akhirnya melihat dari ujung kaki nya sampe ke ujung kepala hiahahiahiahi.

Nyokap gue punya feeling yang cukup bikin heran gue juga. Pernah waktu dulu gue sempet deket dengan seseorang di kampus saya (yang sekarang gue gak tau deh tuh orang apa kabarnya), karena beda agama...gue ngga mau cerita ke nyokap. Tapi suatu hari...tumben2nya nyokap gue bilang gini..."Dan...kamu boleh kok punya pacar, asal jangan yg bikin kaget mama aja", bingung dengan statement nyokap gue yang seperti itu, akhirnya gue bertanya "yang bikin kaget gimana maksudnya mah?" lalu nyokap gue menjawab, "yg beda agama!" JRENGGGGGGGGGGGG! Sejak saat itu juga gue ngga pernah pingin ketemu lagi sama lelaki itu. huhu...takut bok!

Dan sekarang niih...baru2 ini kejadiannya...Kalau di mobil, gue pastinya dengerin radio. Nyokap gue juga otomatis dengerin juga donk. Dan udah beberapa hari ini nama gue seriiing banget disebut di salah satu stasiun radio. Nyokap (dan bokap yang beda mobil tentunya) juga akhirnya kalau gue lagi ngga ikut di mobil, tetep tune in nya ke radio itu. Nah, tapi yang paling sering tuh pagi2...gara2 gue juga sih sering sms...cuma anehnya gw diejek mlulu di radio itu. Dan suatu hari muncullah pertanyaan dari nyokap gue..."ini siapa sih Dan yg siaran? Perasaan ngejekin kamu mlulu dari kemaren!". Jreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenk. Gue pun berfikir kalau harusnya tetep dengerin radio dari walkman aja...but it was too late. Lalu gue jawab, "ini si A sama si B mah!". Nyokap gue lalu bertanya lagi..."Si A itu umur berapa?". Pas gue jawab umurnya yg udah kepala tiga, nyokap gue terus bilang "ohhh segitu, bilang ke dia...jangan sering ngejek2in kamu...nanti bisa2 jatuh cinta sama kamu!". Gue ngakak pas nyokap gue ngomong gitu. Iseng banget juga sih nyokap gue bilang2 gitu...tapi belum cukup disitu saja pernyataan nyokap ternyata...tiba2 nyokap bilang lagi..."Tapi gak papa, cocok kok sama kamu kalau umurnya segitu sih". JRENGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG! Hore banget dah! Nyokap gue pingin gue cepet2 nikah supaya doi punya cucu, dan kakek gue punya cicit! Susahnya jadi anak dan cucu pertama :(

About Men!

Maybe this post can help you to understand about Men's (the mature one I mean) world also :)

dartz wrote on May 6, '07

entynty said

nah kalo ada cowok jomblo bertahun2 itu yg gw heran...apa karena gw memakai azas "cowok yg harusnya mengejar cewek, dan cewek yang dikejar"..jadi cewek lebih banyak menunggu haihaiahia. Jadi aneh ajaa gitu kalo co jomblo bertahun2. hihihi

uhmmm..... koleksi, seleksi, resepsi :)
belajar mengenal itu emang memakan waktu selama itu..
apalagi pake acara ngejar career, something are left behind,

truthfully, to me, kadang iri ama 9am-5pmers,
they got time! to spent for looking,
to spent to going with their spouse, or the targeted one...
me ? i have to build this "home" for my future, or else i'll crushed...
o well, its my problem :)

kurang lebih situasiny nty,
di gue, mungkin mesti cari cewe yg bisa understand...
dan itu susah banget, some of them feels left behind...
udah gitu ya, cuman bisa menghela nafas,
ya ude, mo gimane, kalo merhatiin die ngabisin 3 hari,
bisa mampus gue...hahah...

Yes it's true that sometimes we want men to understand us ...but vice versa, they want us to understand them too. So girls...take and give is the thing!

Me Being Single And Picky

People who are closed to me like my family and my friends (plus my boss) had been asking me the same questions over and over again such as: "pacar sekarang siapa?" or, "masih setia sama status single lo?" or even worse, "kapan married?". Haha...yeah it's kinda the same question asked for Ringgo Agus Rahman in one of a well-known cigarette's commercial. It sometimes makes me want to shout: "enough asking me the same old question, thank you!". But what is the reason of me being single exactly?

Ok, first of all...I admit that I am picky. I have my standards in finding a PERFECT man. But people always said to me, "semua orang gak ada yang sempurna!". Oh yes I already know and surely understand about that! But all of the available men I have met are all confusing me!

Try this man named Sandro, at first he seemed to be nice, more than two years older than me, sooo mature, kind, and sweet. Overall, he was a type of a guy that every girls ever wanted for. He said that he has some serious problems with himself, and after that we're ended up for just being friends. The latest news about him, he's still single up until now!

And there was also this guy named Odrick. When the first time I saw him, I knew that he was perfect. He was such a hard worker and so damn clever (but not a bookworm of course). Oh! he was also sweet, he was so anxious to meet me again and again but then, one of his ex was such a maniac! She send me a message to stay away from him (she assumed herself was still in a relationship with him). Maybe I was the stupid one because I believed him in the first place. But if it was true, why he didn't want to stand up for me? I hate him for being such a looser if that was so! I'm not the kind of girl to complicate the past anyway. One day after, I changed his name in my contacts became "The Jerk" haha!

And the last one was this guy named Brandon. He was super nice, his face also nice, we had interest similarities in music and movies, but then after months of getting to know him, he turned out to be a drama king! I mean I have met people with such problems, but I haven't met this kind of guy who thought that his thousands of problems couldn't get solved. Moreover, he was so "GR" or very pathetically optimistic about me to him. He thought I was so into him, and I was so deeply in love with him and the worst was I wanted to make a commitment with him ASAP! Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh! Imagine that! I couldn't stand with him anymore so I stopped to reply his every single SMS or to pick up his call for quite along time, until I realized that he's not mature enough so I forgave him and now we're friends.

Tired of seeing those kinds of men who are being nice at first but then turned out to be annoying at the end, this experience made me to be a pretty picky single girl. I don't want to see a man just from the outside, I've learned that not every good looking guy are good in the inside. I'm mentioning about their attitude and their ways of thinking. I prefer someone who wouldn't get every women's head turn, but someone whom I see is charming from the inside, a man who can make me laugh hard and a man who can stand by my side in good times or bad times for a long time...maybe for the rest of my life...Amien!

So I stop for dating random guys. Now I just interested in meeting new friends at first...and for the rest? I'll just go with the flow and I know I'll be saved :). Like what they said, "what ever will be, will be!".


PS: Names are changed for their own sake...hehe.

Miss Picky And Her Role Model

To be a teacher was not my dream at first. Like any other little girl who loves to play Barbie and already has an idol, my dream had had to be a famous singer like Mariah Carey and as pretty as a Barbie doll! And when I was in sixth grade, my dream was still about to be a singer and still have a connection with a Barbie...but moreover, to have a good looking boyfriend...just like Ken! (since puppy- love was like a disease in sixth grade). And then...when I was in the fifth semester of my study in Binus, My dream was not about to be a singer anymore (aha! Thanked God, I became more realistic!), but I wanted to be a person who's able to share my knowledge with anyone who needed. Yes! A teacher! And it was all started because of an ordinary person but then turned out to be an extraordinary guy since he became the first winner of Australian Idol. Yep! Guy Sebastian! He taught music before, he shared his ability in singing, mostly with children and he became my role model ever since. Sigh! A good looking guy (but not as handsome as Ken though), with a good voice and a great heart!! Do I have to say more?? Geez...maybe someday I could meet him*day dreaming again*.

And yesterday was such a blessed! When it was 9 am, still on my way to work, I listened to GR (Global Radio) since I knew that they interviewed Guy Sebastian. I texted a question about whether he's still teaching music or not since he's so famous right now. And voila! At 11, when I was in the middle of music class, I got a phone call from GR who said that I was one of the lucky winners. Today, right after work, I went to GR to pick up the Guy Sebastian's Memphis album (complete with his sign HAHA!), accompanied by a good friend of mine, named Riko. By all of the long hours traffic jammed and couple of rupiahs gone (through our some tummy "disorder" haha)...yes, it's all worthed :)

Inginku Berteriak.....

"Pingin punya pacarrrrrhhhh!!!!!"

syit ni... gara2 film indosiar (setiap) jam 5 sore tadi ni...hiks hiks...pas lagi romantis banget tadi episodenya. Terus dah hampir 2 minggu ini kerja bareng sama 3 orang temen smp/sma plus 2 anak sma di skool saya yg dulu. Mereka pasangan gitu dan lucu banget gaya pacarannya, kayak maen2, kayak adek kakak, ngga kayak pacaran serius yg grepe sana sini! Mana masing2 keluarganya udah deket banget lagi. Saking deketnya, sampe si cewek kalo pulang dianterin sama bokapnya si cowok! Cowoknya malah petantang petenteng di rumah. Bah! Jarang banget kan ada kasus kayak gitu huhu...LUCU BANGETTT. Haduh... jadi tambah sedih euy...dah hampir lumutan gini menjomblo eykeeeee! Huhuhu...

Duh! Mana beberapa detik yg lalu si mamih ngasih undangan kawinan sepupu pulak...busett umurnya dibawah saya setahun! Lengkap sudah!!!!!!!!!! Huhuhu....

Saya tak boleh begini terus!! Ayoooo Danty!!! Jangan berpikiran untuk headbanging!! Tenang!!! Besok nonton Heroes marathon!!!!

Peer Pressure

Okay, the peer pressure that I'm facing on right now is getting me on my nerves. What's the meaning of peer pressure anyway? Based from The MSN Encarta, the definition of peer pressure is a "social pressure on somebody to adopt a type of behavior, dress, or attitude in order to be accepted as part of a group."

Everyone keeps telling me to have a boyfriend!!! Gimana ngga? Nih ya bukti2nya :

1. Tadi malem, lagi nonton sinetron sama nyokap, gw lagi meluk2 boneka Hush Puppy gw, terus emang saking gemesnya gw sama boneka itu, gw peluk2, gw cium2...dan tiba2 nyokap bilang gini..."Kayaknya kamu harus punya pacar lagi deh" WHAT?!?!?!

2. Februari nanti, seorang temen gw is getting married, terus gw ngebahas deh sama temen:

Me : Nyed...bentar lagi si jelek married, pasti dateng kan lo?
Nyed : Iya lah pasti! Gila aja ngga dateng, what kind of friend you IS!
Me : Dateng sendiri ngga papa kan ya?
Nyed : YEEEE BAWA PASANGAN DONK!!!
Me : KAYAK GW PUNYAAAA BANGET PASANGAN NYEEEDDD!!
Nyed : Ngga bisa! Udah disepakatin dari dulu, semua musti bawa pasangan! Mau itu temen lo kek, pacar temen lo kek, one night stand elo kek, yg jelas ngga bole ada hubungan darah!!
Me : Bawa keponakannya ipar bokap gw boleh donk?
Nyed : Yeeeeeeeeee

3. Sabtu kemaren, lagi di rumah tante...pas mau pulang, tiba2 tante bilang:

Tante : Dan...desember ada acara pas malem taun baru, dibawa ya ?
Me : Huh? Bawa apa ya tante?
Tante : Temen sangat dekatnya!
Me : Iya, malam taun baru berikut, berikut, berikut, dan seterusnya ngga papa ya tante?

4. Udah lamaaaaa banget ngga kontak-mengontak sama temen gw, padahal dulu hampir tiap weekend jalan bareng. Tiba2 dia telpon.

Dia : Dan!! Kmana aja sih looo...udah lama ngga ada kabar!
Me : Aduhhh sorry deyh sayyy, gw jadi anak rumahan mlulu nih, ngerjain thesis mlulu.
Dia : Aduh Dannnn...jangan di rumah terus donk!!! Ayo bergaul! Cari pacar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me : Huh? Jodoh ngga akan lari kemana2! Udah ada benang merahnya! Ntar pas gw udah bener2 pingin pacaran, baru gw telusurin tuh benang merah!

See? Haduh, gw masih betah sendiri (ya karena beberapa hal juga sih yg jadi pertimbangan gw untuk stay single hehe), blom ada seseorang yg bikin gw sreg, dan gw ngga se-desperate itu untuk cepet2 nyari pacar, ikutan Kontak Jodoh or something...Apa perlu gw nyablon kaos tulisannya:

"I'm Single, and Not Looking!"

atau

"I'm Single and I don't need a Man"

...err...kalau yg ini ngga juga sih, I'm not that radical feminist type.

How to get rid of this peer pressure thingy? It's killing me!! Huhu...atau mungkin gw bikin kaos aja, tulisannya

WANTED:

A Single Guy Who is :

1. 100 % Javanese

2. White

3. Smart

4. Romantic

5. Funny

6. Love Kids

7. Wanna get married soon

8. CAN COOK!

Hahahah...